How can you tell if a guy actually cares or is just using you?

One thing you need to understand is that men and women have different ways of expressing their feelings. Women tend to focus on the small details, the little gestures, the subtle hints. Men, on the other hand, are more straightforward and direct. They show their interest by making an effort, by making choices, by not making excuses.

So, if you want to know if he really cares about you, don’t look for signs, look for actions.

- A caring guy would make time for you, even if he’s busy. He would call you back, text you regularly, and make plans with you in advance. He would prioritize you over his friends, his hobbies, and his work. A user would always be too busy to talk to you, never return your calls or texts promptly, and always cancel on you at the last minute. He would put his friends, his hobbies, and his work before you.

- A caring guy would be honest with you, even if it’s hard. He would tell you how he feels about you, what he wants from the relationship, and where he sees it going. He would not hide anything from you or lie to you. A user would be vague, ambiguous, and secretive. He would never tell you he likes you, never define the relationship, and never commit to anything. He would have something to hide or lie about.

- A caring guy would respect you, even if he disagrees with you. He would listen to your opinions, value your input, and support your decisions. He would not judge you, criticize you, or mock you. A user…